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Do You Desire God? – Paul Washer

Posted: March 8th, 2010, by Proverbs 31 Sista

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No Bible study for this Sunday

Posted: March 6th, 2010, by Deacon Butler

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Hello everyone, there will be no Bible study for this Sunday, March 7, 2010.  Please join us again “God willing” on next Sunday, March 14, 2010.

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Marriage & Relationships

Posted: February 27th, 2010, by Deacon Butler

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Join us Sunday, 2/28/2010 for 1 hour of teaching followed by a half hour of questions and answers (Q & A).
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Topic:  Marriage & Relationships
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What’s wrong with your marriage?  How does one maintain a healthy marriage relationship? What are some things an individual must do to contribute in a long happy marriage?
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In Loving Memory of Elder Nathaniel Williams

Posted: February 25th, 2010, by Deacon Butler

I met Elder Nate sometime in the year 2006, and we spoke via telephone on several occasions.  I didn’t agree with everything that he held to, but I realized that he truly was a man that loved the Lord and I will miss him dearly.  Our prayers go out to his lovely wife, sister Tanya Williams and his family.  God’s blessings.

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“From People Standing Up 1 “

 


ELDER: NATHANIEL E. WILLIAMS
ezra.ministries@hotmail.com
(OHIO)

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The Celebration of life Praise and Worship Service for Minister Nathaniel E. Williams will be on Friday February 26, 2010 at 5:30 p.m. est.  The Celebration will be held at Lee Memorial AME Church on 10512 Bryant Avenue, Cleveland, Oh 44108.  Flowers can be sent directly to the church to be delivered the day of the service.  Cards can be brought to the service or mailed to Tanya Williams 708 East 92 Street, Cleveland, OH. 44108.

 

Nate loved the Lord and served him with gladness and that is what we will be doing on Friday.  Our Pastor Rev. Dwayne M. Simmons will be officiating and there will be a repast in Lee’s fellowship hall immediately after the service.

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Those in Christ are Beloved

Posted: February 25th, 2010, by Proverbs 31 Sista

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Those who are in Christ are beloved….



The sovereignty of God and the power of prayer

Posted: February 20th, 2010, by Deacon Butler

Join us Sunday, 2/21/2010 for 1 hour of teaching followed by a half hour of questions and answers (Q & A).

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Topic:  The sovereignty of God and the power of prayer

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If God already knows what is going to happen tomorrow because whatever is going to happen tomorrow is already set in eternity, then can prayer change tomorrow’s outcome?

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If prayer cannot change tomorrow’s outcome, then why pray?
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Does prayer move God to act on behalf of “Believer’s” although He is Sovereign?
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Is there any power at all in prayer?  If yes, power to do what?

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The Blessing or Curse of Tithing

Posted: February 13th, 2010, by Deacon Butler

Join us Sunday, 2/14/2010 for 1 hour of teaching followed by a half hour of questions and answers (Q & A).

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Topic:  The Blessing or Curse of Tithing

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Are we to give to the poor?  Does God desire believers to give 10% of their earnings?  Can Christians be cursed with a curse?  Does tithing move God to bless someone?  Lets discuss the topic of tithing.

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Read sister Lessie Myles’ “Tithing” testimony: An Insert From The August., 2009 Newspaper

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If Paul’s Epistle to the Galatians was Published in Christianity Today…

Posted: February 10th, 2010, by Proverbs 31 Sista

This hilarious look at the lukewarm church of today is brought to us courtesy of http://www.sacredsandwich.com

Posted on 20 February 2009
LETTERS TO THE EDITOR

Dear Christianity Today:

In response to Paul D. Apostle’s article about the Galatian church in your January issue, I have to say how appalled I am by the unchristian tone of this hit piece. Why the negativity? Has he been to the Galatian church recently? I happen to know some of the people at that church, and they are the most loving, caring people I’ve ever met.

Phyllis Snodgrass; Ann Arbor, MI

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Dear Editor:

How arrogant of Mr. Apostle to think he has the right to judge these people and label them accursed. Isn’t that God’s job? Regardless of this circumcision issue, these Galatians believe in Jesus just as much as he does, and it is very Pharisaical to condemn them just because they differ on such a secondary issue. Personally, I don’t want a sharp instrument anywhere near my zipper, but that doesn’t give me the right to judge how someone else follows Christ. Can’t we just focus on our common commitment to Christ and furthering His kingdom, instead of tearing down fellow believers over petty doctrinal matters?

Ed Bilgeway; Tonganoxie, KS

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Dear CT:

I’ve seen other dubious articles by Paul Apostle in the past, and frankly I’m surprised you felt that his recurrent criticisms of the Church deserved to be printed in your magazine. Mr. Apostle for many years now has had a penchant for thinking he has a right to “mark” certain Christian teachers who don’t agree with his biblical position. Certainly I commend him for desiring to stay faithful to God’s word, but I think he errs in being so dogmatic about his views to the point where he feels free to openly attack his brethren. His attitude makes it difficult to fully unify the Church, and gives credence to the opposition’s view that Christians are judgmental, arrogant people who never show God’s love.

Ken Groener; San Diego, CA

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To the Editors:

Paul Apostle says that he hopes the Galatian teachers will cut off their own privates? What kind of Christian attitude is that? Shame on him!

Martha Bobbitt; Boulder, CO

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Dear Christianity Today:

The fact that Paul Apostle brags about his public run-in with Peter Cephas, a well-respected leader and brother in Christ, exposes Mr. Apostle for the divisive figure that he has become in the Church today. His diatribe against the Galatian church is just more of the same misguided focus on an antiquated reliance on doctrine instead of love and tolerance. Just look how his hypercritical attitude has cast aspersions on homosexual believers and women elders! The real problem within the Church today is not the lack of doctrinal devotion, as Apostle seems to believe, but in our inability to be transformed by our individual journeys in the Spirit. Evidently, Apostle has failed to detach himself from his legalistic background as a Pharisee, and is unable to let go and experience the genuine love for Christ that is coming from the Galatians who strive to worship God in their own special way.

William Zenby; Richmond, VA

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Kind Editors:

I happen to be a member of First Christian Church of Galatia, and I take issue with Mr. Apostle’s article. How can he criticize a ministry that has been so blessed by God? Our church has baptized many new members and has made huge in-roads in the Jewish community with our pragmatic view on circumcision. Such a “seeker-sensitive” approach has given the Jews the respect they deserve for being God’s chosen people for thousands of years. In addition, every Gentile in our midst has felt honored to engage in the many edifying rituals of the Hebrew heritage, including circumcision, without losing their passion for Jesus. My advice to Mr. Apostle is to stick to spreading the gospel message of Christ’s unconditional love, and quit criticizing what God is clearly blessing in other churches.

Miriam “Betty” Ben-Hur; Galatia, Turkey

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EDITOR’S NOTE: Christianity Today apologizes for our rash decision in publishing Paul Apostle’s exposé of the Galatian church. Had we known the extent in which our readership and advertisers would withdraw their financial support, we never would have printed such unpopular biblical truth. We regret any damage we may have caused in propagating the doctrines of Christ.



February 19th, 2010 (Friday)

Posted: February 5th, 2010, by Deacon Butler

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To All living in the New York area

 

“FREE” viewing of the movie

 

“Lord Save Us From Our Leaders”

 

*  WHERE:  The Eastside Tabernacle Church

 

*  ADDRESS:  254 E. 2nd Street / (Between) Avenues B & C

 

*  TIME:  7:00 PM

 

*  Must call to reserve seats

 

*  TEL NUMBER:  (201) 298-5700

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A Celebration of Gospel Garbage

Posted: February 2nd, 2010, by Proverbs 31 Sista

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Post from the “Latter Days Ministry” Blog
http://thelatterdays.blogspot.com

Friendship with the World IS Enmity Against God

Cry aloud, spare not, lift up thy voice like a trumpet, and shew my people their transgression, and the house of Jacob their sins. Isaiah 58:1

There have been several “Gospel” awards shows recently, and they all have one thing in common: a love of the world. People mistakenly believe that if you slap the name of Jesus on anything, it becomes Christian. This is not so.

The following video engages in a discussion of the recent “Celebration of Gospel” awards show which was featured on BET. The theme was “10 Years, Faithfully Yours.” I have no doubt these shows have been faithful; the question is to whom have they been faithful?

If you cannot see the video below please CLICK HERE to see it.

According to Steve Harvey, the “celebration of Gospel” has always been about merging the church with the world.

He says, “We have always brought in people from the secular world into this [church] world. But what you find out is the people who just make their living in the secular world have never really left this [church] world. It is just that they have found a means out there…When they hit the stage, they are going to give praise to the one who has taken them to the top of the charts.” They did proceed to the stage and gave praise to the one who has taken them to the top of the secular charts; his name is Satan.
Is this why Jesus came? Is this what the Gospel is about? Joining with the world and proclaiming that we ALL serve God in spite of how we live? Is the world supposed to be the light unto the church or is the church a light unto the world? Is the world in darkness or is the church?

“And we know that we are of God, and the whole world lieth in wickedness.” I John 5:19

Why are people sitting up under the world, letting the world teach them and preach to them about what it is to serve Christ? Because this is not the church.


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WHAT?! That’s right! All the shouting, all the Amen-ing, all the arms upraised, all the Hallelujah-ing is all for naught. This is the world entertaining the world by playing religion. It is a show of flesh and an exaltation of all that is carnal under a cover of a false Christianity that Scripture calls the WHORE of Babylon. It looks like a whore, talks like a whore, dresses like a whore, and behaves like a whore. God’s word is surely true.

“For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is NOT of the Father, but is of the world.” I John 2:16

How do you have a “Gospel celebration” while forgetting the very nature of the Gospel?? When did the “Gospel” become about worldly talent and acceptance instead of sanctification unto Jesus Christ?? Are those who are of the world, promoting the world, living after the world really just Christians at heart who are simply doing what they “got to do” to be successful?

“Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the spirit which is of God; that we might know the things that are freely given to us of God.” I Corinthians 2:12

The BET Gospel Awards, the Stellar Awards, the Dove Awards…these events are becoming showcases for the degeneration of the church. We are witnessing the great apostasy happen right before our eyes as women prance half-naked and men sashay on the way to Hell, while pretending to serve JEEEEEEESUS! The spirit of the world has walked into and merged into the fabric of what is called church, and now some cannot even tell the different between the spirit of a sodomite and the Holy Spirit of God.

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“And what concord hath Christ with Belial? Or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? For ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.” II Corinthians 6:15-18

We are not even received by the Father until we have come out from amongst that which is unclean and separated from it…in our hearts. That is what repentance is, a turning away from that which is sinful and defiled. What makes these people think that they can embrace that which is unclean and call themselves Christians? A false, perverted Gospel.
STOP playing with God, for HE is not playing! Several have told me that God has given them a message saying this year He will make a separation between the wheat and the tares. Where will you wind up standing? The things these “stars” and “churchfolk” are doing in the name of Christ is beyond shameful…and yet who will stand against it and represent the true Gospel?

“For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.” II Corinthians 11:4

Which “Jesus” do YOU serve? If you can enjoy, promote, or defend the type of FILTH featured in these videos, then have no doubt that the “Jesus” you serve is not the True & Living God.

“If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you. If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.” John 15:18-19

Do we believe Jesus’ words? He does not say the world will hate you sometimes, nor does He say that some of the world will hate you. The world WILL hate you. Why? Because you have been chosen OUT of the world. According to Jesus, if you are still “of the world” – and loved by the world – it is a testimony to the fact that you are NOT in Christ.
If you claim to love the Lord, and have been involved in or supporting this pseudo-religious nonsense, then you must repent…and quick, for time is short. Stop trying to be accepted, be famous, be adored, be applauded, be liked by the world. CAST DOWN these idols you have erected, repent, deny your “self”, and follow Christ.
When you promote a false Gospel like the one featured in the earlier Steve Harvey video, you will only attract false converts. Only the true Gospel message is the power to save…out from the world.



Is The Judgment of God On Haiti ?

Posted: January 30th, 2010, by Deacon Butler

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Join us Sunday, 1/31/2010 for 1 hour of teaching followed by a half hour of questions and answers (Q & A).

 

Be Very Careful When Making A Judgment!

We are taught in scripture to judge righteously but we were also warned that we would be judged by the same judgments we make.

 

(Matthew 7:2)

For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

 

(John 7:24)

Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.

 

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Don’t Add On To The Gospel

Posted: January 25th, 2010, by Proverbs 31 Sista

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Let’s not add to the Gospel of Jesus Christ…

Blair Wingo – www.P4CM.com

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Bible Study – Sunday, 1/24/2010

Posted: January 23rd, 2010, by Deacon Butler

Join us Sunday, 1/24/2010 for 1 hour of teaching followed by a half hour of questions and answers (Q & A).

 

Teacher:  Pastor Saiko Woods

 

Topic:  “To Flee or Not To Flee”

 

Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils (1 Timothy 4:1);

 

(Matthew 16:13-20)

Peter’s Confession

 

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Are You Choosing Church Over Your Marriage?

Posted: January 21st, 2010, by Proverbs 31 Sista

This blog is amazing and I just had to share it with you all.

From Essence.com.

by Harriet Hairston

Every now and then when we have a hot topic on our main blog we’ll bring it here to Essence.com. This piece, written by BMWK contributor Harriet Hairston received a lot of comments on our site. Check it out.

Please allow me to caveat this article with the following disclaimer: this is not an attack on churches. It is a real discussion about how some individuals VIEW church, and thus cause what God created as beautiful to turn into a monstrosity. I love the Lord and His people. This article is not designed to discourage anyone from attending and serving in church.

That said:

Sometimes I wonder if church is all it’s cracked up to be. Don’t get me wrong: I was raised in the church. Both my husband and I are in love with Jesus Christ, and our marriage is centered around Him. Yet there was a skewed balance for a time that almost tore our marriage apart. The “church” was the other woman that disrupted my time with my husband. It was the sugar daddy that fed into my need for attention and affection. We were both heavily involved in ministry, from music to teaching; small groups to street ministry…we did it all.

But home was a mess! We could barely stand one another’s company because of the twisted mindset we had towards ministry:

  • We felt like above our tithe, most of our money was supposed to go to the needs of the church.
  • If we had a date or family time planned out, and a last minute, poorly planned church project came up, we would drop everything to attend so as to be thought of as “faithful.”
  • We were more devoted to our relationships with our pastors and leaders than we were to growth in our relationship with one another.

And like sands through the hourglass, these were the days of our lives. It all sounds so sick and twisted. How could such a pure and holy thing be so misconstrued and maligned? I can tell you first hand that it has nothing to do with the four walls of a building, or the teaching and preaching of pastors across the nation. It has everything to do with the mindsets within each person choosing to attend church.

We were associate leaders in the church, but this kind of skewed thinking goes from the pulpit to the back pew. It’s all over the news these days: traveling MARRIED musicians getting their choir members pregnant, money laundering, abusive husbands and wives, pimping and pedophilia…you name it, it has been done by leaders who are supposed to be reflecting the love of Christ!

There is a real heaviness that comes over me when I hear about marriages in the church falling apart at such an alarming rate. Whether they are prominent couples in the spotlight or normal couples in the pew, there is an epidemic of divorce within the church-especially the black church. Addiction to the praises of other men, fame, money, prestige, position can truly wreak havoc on a marital relationship.

I can’t begin to pinpoint the root of the problem, but I’m sure that disorder about priorities plays a large role in Christian marital failure. Before God created Adam, He created a purpose for Adam. Then He created Eve to SHARE in that purpose. Otherwise, there would have been no need for a woman to ever enter the picture.

To keep this from turning into a Bible study, let me translate that statement. For those married couples that attend church, the order God created was to love:

  1. GOD;
  2. SPOUSE;
  3. FAMILY, THEN
  4. CHURCH.

In fact, marriage was the first institution created by God, long before churches and building projects ever existed!

Yet it remains that there are churches and denominations out there who will say it is OK for a minister to leave his or her spouse for the work of the Lord. How backwards is that? What sense does it make to love the work of God more than the God of the work?

This is for those of you who serve in church, who are leaders of ministry, who go to church every Sunday, or even C.M.E. (Christmas, Mother’s Day and Easter) members. Please let the record show that MARRIAGE comes before MINISTRY. Even deeper than that, marriage IS ministry! There is no joy to be had in being a public success but private failure. There is a way to balance it all in God’s will, but like anything else, it takes work and commitment.

So, BMWK, how many of you actually go to church and noticed such a vicious pattern? For those of you who do not, have these patterns prevented you from going? What can we do to line our priorities back up in God’s original will?

God bless!

~ Harriet

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The American Church: Laodicea on Crack

Posted: January 20th, 2010, by Proverbs 31 Sista

BRACE YOURSELVES

Check out The MalaniKai Show is a syndicated radio program which appears on many Christian radio stations across the country. Hear how our sister in Christ talks about the Laodicean church today. IMHO this is one of her best shows yet concerning the church.

I made an intro (6 mins) and the second video is the rest of the show (38:13) to watch at your own leisure.

Scripture Emphasis: Revelation 3:14 – 22 (NIV)

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Check out Malanikai at these following sites:

http://www.malanikai.com

http://www.youtube.com/user/MalaniKai

http://malanikai.podbean.com

http://www.myspace.com/malanikai

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/malanikai